Encouragement Love Messages About How To Say No With Love, Love I would always say is a beautiful thing. And this beauty of it depends on how you treat and made it to be. When you treat love with value and understanding, then you will always have the worth of it. But where you treat and made it looked like that which has no value; then you will always have that which will not profit your well-being.
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Encouragement Love Messages About How To Say No With Love
Love was meant to be shared in a mutual and in an understanding way. It was never meant to be selfish but rather that which will bring us to that emotional connection which should be blissful, enduring and that which will forever gladden the heart.
In the thoughts of making it gladden our hearts, this we should note that it is not at all times that we would find the pleasure of it that will always gladden our hearts.
In love, we would have times that we would encounter challenges but in such situation, it is not for us to give up on love. But rather to prove the value that is embedded in love. And this value proves itself when we allow ourselves to still love inspite of that which surrounds us.
I know we would at most time but hurt in love. And this arises when we seems not to share the same ideologies on certain aspect of life. In as much as this might arise, we should also know that there is no perfect love. For it is in our imperfection that we can make things perfect in love.
In love, the feelings of your significant other should be that which should become paramount in your mind. In as much as this should be done, try within your possible best how not to hurt the feeling of the one your love. And this involves that you learn how to say no to certain with love.
“When you learn to say NO with love, you don’t only prove that you are worthy of love but you also showed that you are matured and capable of love in return.”
Though they say for peace to reign in the home and in a relationship, you have to do the bidding of your spouse’s. Sometimes, I say it is not always good to do their bidding considering the situation at hand at that moment.
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You need time to reason out before doing any bidding. Do not be under any pressure to do the bidding of the one you love. But when putting out that straight face to say NO, do it with love.
It is the attitude that you put up when saying NO that will make the other person seems to understand you. When you say the No, do not make it look as if you are forcing it on the other person. Always take time to make an explanation. Explain to your significance other the reason behind your action. To do this, I say do it with love.
Sometimes, it may be hard to understand at first but if you must live with a peace of mind, it is not everything you should say YES to. Love can be blind but you need the light of reasoning to see it through. Listen and learn. Do not act foolishly and have yourself to blame and regret later.
Love actually should be shared with a peace of mind and not through intimidation. When a relationship is built on intimation, then there is nothing valuable that would be achieved through such a relationship.
In building your relationship, upward, let yourself be understood from the onset. When that understanding is there without any pretentious nature attached to it, that mutual understanding at all times would be there. And when you learn to communicate more at all times, there will always be a smooth way of getting things done without hurting the feelings of the other person.
When you have to say No on certain things, it shouldn’t come with augment but with a well thought out solution towards the challenges at hand. Always if the relationship is to move forward, you will always disagree to agree but in making that possible for you to have a healthy relationship, you actually must learn to say No with love.
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