How true is the above quote from the late female British Prime Minister? In either way you put a comment to it, she might have some real fact to it. If I may ask as a man, had a woman ever ‘worried’ your life before? Maybe a little ‘worry’ from a woman when it becomes persistence, you may understand what the statement seems to mean. Margaret Thatcher Quotes If You Want Something Done, Margaret Thatcher Quotes Watch Your Thoughts, Margaret Thatcher Death, Margaret Thatcher Education, Margaret Thatcher Biography, Margaret Thatcher Speech, Margaret Thatcher Iron Lady, Margaret Thatcher Rent A Spine, If You Want Something Done Ask A Busy Person Benjamin Franklin, If You Want A Job Done Ask A Busy Person , Meaning, If You Want Something Done Ask A Woman, If You Want Something Doing, Quotes About Being Independent And Happy
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How Can This Margaret Thatcher Statement That If You Want Something Done, Use A Woman Be True?
“If you want something to be said, use a man. But if you want something done, use a woman.” – Margaret Thatcher
How true is the above quote from the late female British Prime Minister? In either way you put a comment to it, she might have some real fact to it. If I may ask as a man, had a woman ever ‘worried’ your life before? Maybe a little ‘worry’ from a woman when it becomes persistence, you may understand what the statement seems to mean.
Somehow from the statement, there is some element of serious truth in it. Men generally betray their emotion when it comes to taking action. Maybe it is the nature of a man as a father to always look at anything in it true nature before taking any action. Like they say a man thinks before he acts while a woman act before she thinks. Hope the womenfolk would not crucify me on this. I mean no harm but seriously let us look in-between the line.
Ask yourself while would a man delay to make a decision when it has to do with taking an action on a matter that requires an urgent attention? Men are known to bear the cost of anything that worries their mind. They prefer to take a look at it critically and this to any woman is looked upon as a delay in taking action. A woman wants it done immediately and done with it as it demands. But a man would seem to paint a picture of it and giving it time before finally taking his decision.
Sometimes the cause of this delay is worth it but sometimes, it isn’t. Generally when the situation at hand demands the taking of life or harming the one to which the action would be taken upon, it requires critical decision. Forget what people may say, most women are strong-will. Bold, daring and quick to give back the way it comes.
When a woman is opened we say she is daring and people might seem to trade her way with caution. But what about those we feel are not daring, sincerely, if you dare them, you will understand that sometimes it is so cool to deal with someone you understand their trait of outspokenness than the other way round. If I should be true to you, anyone who is outspoken has nothing to hide but we tend to look at them as somehow daring. It might at the long run surprise you that any woman we seem to see as strong-will are in fact so emotional compared to others.
When a woman has the effrontery to stand up to her right, we equate it to equity and equality. But sometimes it might not be true. A woman in other to cover her weaker side seems to trace that line of action which is later on always regrettable.
A woman feels because of her nature in creation, she is looked upon as the weaker vessel at the receiving side of history. So to overcome that, she builds herself with the mind that is always protective towards defending her own ideology. But as a man and father, you do not need to go that way. Ours was to love and theirs was to obey. So when you love, she will obey and no two ways about it.
I know sometimes for some people to achieve their worth, they need to be pushed. If that push is to achieve a definite purpose, it is worth it but if it is towards negative attributes, than it is not worth it. Getting anything done, should be what should benefit all and not towards destruction.
Action to me should be taken immediately and not to be procrastinated, that is if the action is what will benefit humanity and the person taking the decision. Delay I know is dangerous and can kill the spirit of forthrightness. Again I would say if it is for good; then it is worth it but if not; forget it because anything that will not do all any good; shouldn’t be attempted.
In conclusion and in line with Margaret Thatcher’s statement that says, “If you want something to be said, use a man. But if you want something done, use a woman”. To me, that is her ideology at the happening of that time which prompted her to make the statement. I would say she has the right as far as there is freedom of speech. You may either choose to believe her or not. It is entirely you choice because that is the power we as human have, to make a choice and stand by our choices. When you can make a choice and stand by your choices, it defines the real person in you that is you.
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